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Complete Genogram Guide

Master the art of creating professional genograms with our comprehensive guide to symbols, relationships, and clinical standards based on McGoldrick & Gerson's methodology.

What is a Genogram?

A genogram is a graphic representation of a family tree that displays detailed data on relationships among individuals. It goes beyond a traditional family tree by allowing the user to visualize hereditary patterns, psychological factors, and relationship dynamics within a family.

Developed by Monica McGoldrick and Randy Gerson in 1985, genograms are widely used across multiple professional fields:

Family therapy and counseling
Medical history tracking
Social work assessments
Genealogical research
Genetic counseling
Academic research

Gender Symbols

Genograms use standardized shapes to represent individuals based on gender identity.

Male

Square

A square represents a male individual

Female

Circle

A circle represents a female individual

▢⊙

Transgender Male

Square + Circle

Square with inner circle

○□

Transgender Female

Circle + Square

Circle with inner square

Nonbinary

Rounded Square

A square with rounded corners represents nonbinary gender identity

○|

Intersex

Circle + Line

A circle with vertical dividing line represents intersex individuals

Unknown

Diamond

A rotated square when gender is unknown

Other

Diamond

A diamond for other gender identities

Status Indicators

Visual modifications to shapes indicate an individual's life status.

Alive

Normal shape

Standard shape without modifications

Deceased

X through shape

Diagonal line through the symbol, optional death dates

Pregnancy

Small triangle

Indicates current pregnancy

Miscarriage

Small X symbol

Indicates pregnancy loss

Stillbirth

Filled shape with X

Indicates stillborn child

Abortion

Small shape with cross

Indicates terminated pregnancy

Structural Relationships

Different line styles indicate various types of legal and family relationships.

Marriage

Solid double line

Cohabitation

Dashed line

Engagement

Dotted line

Dating

Light dotted line

Life Partner

Solid single line

//

Divorce

Double line + two slashes

Separation (Legal)

Double line + L slash

Separation (Physical)

Double line + P slash

Annulment

Double line + A

Widowed

Double line + X

Affair

Wavy line

One-night Stand

Dotted wavy line

Rape

Red arrow line

Parent-Child

Orthogonal vertical line

Association

Generic link line

Unknown

Dotted line

Child Connection Types

Different line styles on parent-child connections indicate the nature of the parent-child relationship.

Biological

Solid line

Biological child

Adopted

Dashed line

Legally adopted child

Foster

Dotted line

Foster child placement

Step

Stepped line

Stepchild relationship

S

Surrogate

S-marked line

Born via surrogate

SD

Sperm Donor

SD-marked line

Sperm donor conception

ED

Egg Donor

ED-marked line

Egg donor conception

Emotional Relationships

Emotional relationship lines visualize the quality and dynamics of relationships between family members. These are overlaid on top of structural relationships.

Harmony

Single green line

Balanced, peaceful relationship

Close

Two parallel blue lines

Warm, supportive bond with healthy boundaries

Friendship

Two parallel green lines

Non-familial supportive bond

Love

Green line with circle

Deep affection and caring

In Love

Green line with two circles

Mutual romantic attachment

Attachment

Green line with circles

Secure ongoing emotional tie

Limerence

Slate line, two circles, arrowhead

One-sided infatuation

Fused / Enmeshed

Three parallel red lines

Over-involved; boundaries blurred

Fused / Conflict

Three red lines + zigzag

Enmeshed and actively conflictual

Fused / Hostile

Three red lines + zigzag

Enmeshed with open antagonism

Fused / Violence

Three red lines + tight zigzag

Enmeshed with physical violence

Distant

Dashed red line

Emotional disconnection

Indifferent

Thin grey line

No emotional investment

Estranged / Cutoff

Solid red line + two bars

Contact deliberately broken

Cutoff Repaired

Blue line, two bars, circle

A break since reconciled

Never Met

Grey dashed line with X

No relationship ever formed

Distant / Hostile

Grey dashed + red zigzag

Disengaged and antagonistic

Distant / Violence

Grey dashed + tight zigzag

Disengaged with violence

Conflict

Two dashed red lines

Active tension and arguments

Hostile

Red zigzag

Open antagonism

Violence

Tight dark-red zigzag

Physical violence or threat

Hate

Three dashed red lines

Deep-seated animosity

Distrust

Black line with paired bars

Suspicion, withheld confidence

Jealous

Red arrow with diamond

Possessiveness and envy

Close / Hostile

Two blue lines + red zigzag

Close yet openly antagonistic

Close / Violence

Two blue lines + tight zigzag

Close with physical violence

Abuse

Black zigzag + blue arrow

Generic abuse pattern

Abuse — Physical

Red zigzag + filled arrow

Bodily harm, harm-doer to harmed

Abuse — Emotional

Red zigzag + outlined arrow

Coercion, degradation, control

Abuse — Sexual

Red double line + zigzag + arrow

Sexual violation

Neglect — Physical

Blue dashed line + arrow

Care, food or shelter withheld

Neglect — Emotional

Blue sparse-dashed + arrow

Emotional care withheld

Control

Red line + crossed box + arrow

Coercive control

Manipulative

Red dashed + X + arrow

Covert influence

Focused On

Red line + arrow

Attention directed at one person

Focused On — Negative

Red zigzag + arrow

Critical or blaming focus

Caretaker

Red line + double chevron

Caregiving directed at another

Fan / Admirer

Slate line, two circles, arrow

Admiration directed at another

Twin Types

Twins are represented with special connecting lines between siblings.

Fraternal Twins

V-shaped connection line

Dizygotic twins - two separate eggs

Identical Twins

V-shaped connection with bar

Monozygotic twins - single egg split

Immigration Markers

Immigration and cultural transition markers are placed on parent-child lines to indicate migration events.

~

Single (~)

Single tilde on parent-child line

Person lived in 2+ cultures

~~

Double (~~)

Double tilde on parent-child line

Immigration/migration event

Medical History Tracking

Medical conditions are tracked using 4 customizable color-coded quadrants within each person's symbol. You can set your own labels for each quadrant to track any conditions relevant to your family.

4 Customizable Quadrants

1
Slot 1

Top-left quadrant - customizable label

2
Slot 2

Top-right quadrant - customizable label

3
Slot 3

Bottom-left quadrant - customizable label

4
Slot 4

Bottom-right quadrant - customizable label

Custom 1
Custom 2
Custom 3
Custom 4

Example labels: Heart Disease, Cancer, Diabetes, Mental Health, Substance Abuse, Alzheimer's, Autoimmune, or any condition relevant to your family history.

Cultural Heritage Patterns

Fill patterns within symbols indicate cultural heritage or ethnicity. Combined with text labels, they provide rich context about family backgrounds.

Horizontal

Vertical

Diagonal Right

Diagonal Left

Crosshatch

Dots

Waves

Braid

Checkerboard

Zigzag

Diamonds

None

Pattern Colors

Patterns can be rendered in 14 different colors including Slate, Red, Orange, Yellow, Green, Teal, Cyan, Blue, Indigo, Purple, Fuchsia, Pink, and Rose. This allows for distinguishing multiple heritage lines within the same genogram.

SlateRedOrangeYellowGreenTealBluePurplePink

Religious Indicators

Religious affiliation is displayed using standardized icons near each person's symbol.

Christianity

Cross

Judaism

Star of David

Islam

Crescent Moon

Buddhism

Dharma Wheel

Hinduism

Om

Sikhism

Khanda

Spiritual

Sparkles

None/Atheist

Minus

Other

Ellipsis

Socioeconomic Class

Social class indicators provide context about family economic circumstances across generations.

Upper

Upper-Middle

Middle

Working

Poverty

Sexual Orientation

Sexual orientation can be documented using triangle markers below the person's symbol. Non-heterosexual orientations display a small triangle indicator.

Heterosexual

Attraction to opposite gender

Gay

Male same-sex attraction

Lesbian

Female same-sex attraction

Bisexual

Attraction to multiple genders

Asexual

Little to no sexual attraction

Pansexual

Attraction regardless of gender

Queer

Non-heteronormative orientation

?

Unknown

Orientation not specified

Location Tracking

Geographic information helps track migration patterns and current locations. GenogramAI supports 47 countries with flag icons and structured location data.

Location Data Structure

  • Country (with ISO 2-letter code)
  • State/Province
  • City
  • Country flag badge display
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Best Practices

1

Start with the Index Person

Begin your genogram with the person of primary focus (the index person or main subject) and work outward from there. This creates a clear organizational center.

2

Include at Least Three Generations

For a comprehensive view, include grandparents, parents, and children. More generations provide richer context for identifying patterns.

3

Maintain Consistent Spacing

Keep siblings evenly spaced and generations aligned horizontally for clarity and readability. GenogramAI's layout engine handles this automatically.

4

Add Dates and Ages

Include birth years, death years, and ages at significant events to create a timeline of family history and identify age-related patterns.

5

Document All Relationship Types

Don't just show marriages—include divorces, separations, and emotional relationships to give a complete picture of family dynamics.

6

Update Regularly

Genograms are living documents. Update them as new information becomes available or circumstances change within the family.

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