Distance Pattern

Estranged Relationship Symbol in Genograms

The estranged symbol—a gray line with a T-bar break—represents relationships that have deteriorated to near-cutoff but retain some minimal connection. Estrangement sits between distance and complete cutoff on the disconnection spectrum.

Estranged: Gray line with T-bar break

Understanding Estrangement

Estrangement represents a relationship that has significantly deteriorated but hasn't reached complete cutoff. Contact may be rare, strained, or mediated through others.

Characteristics

Very limited contact (perhaps once a year or less)
Contact feels obligatory rather than desired
Conversations remain superficial or awkward
May communicate through intermediaries
Unresolved issues hang over the relationship

The Disconnection Spectrum

Distant: Limited but ongoing connection
Estranged: Near-cutoff, minimal contact
Cutoff: No contact at all

Related Symbols

Cutoff

Complete disconnection

Distant

Less severe disconnection

Indifferent Never Met

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