Intense Negative

Hate Relationship Symbol in Genograms

The hate symbol—three dashed red lines—represents the most intense form of negative feeling between family members. Unlike conflict or hostility which may fluctuate, hate suggests a deep, persistent aversion that colors all interactions and may be accompanied by wishes for harm.

Hate: Three dashed red lines

Understanding Hate in Family Systems

Hate in genogram notation represents intense, persistent aversion. This is distinguished from temporary anger or even ongoing hostility by its deep-rooted, seemingly immutable nature.

Clinical Considerations

Hate often develops from severe betrayal or trauma
May mask profound hurt or grief
Often involves dehumanization of the hated person
Can be transmitted to other family members
May persist even after the hated person's death

Hate vs. Other Negative Patterns

Conflict: Disagreement, can be resolved
Hostile: Active antagonism, may fluctuate
Hate: Deep aversion, feels permanent

Related Symbols

Hostile

Less intense antagonism

Cutoff

Often accompanies hate

Violence Distrust

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