Family tree maker

Blended family tree maker

Two divorces, a remarriage, kids from both sides and one born together. A normal family tree struggles with that. A genogram, the detailed version of a family tree, has a line for every one of those bonds.
Updated October 2026

Quick answer

A blended family tree shows a family formed by remarriage: both partners, their former spouses, the children each one brought, and any children they had together. To draw one, give every marriage its own line (two slashes for a divorce), hang each child from the couple they were born to, and use a stepchild line to connect a child to a step-parent.

What does a blended family tree need to show?

A standard family tree assumes one couple per generation and children who belong to both of them. Blended families break that assumption in three places at once: a parent may have more than one partner, a child may have more than two parental figures, and siblings may share one parent or none.

The fix is not more boxes. It is more kinds of lines. A genogram keeps the family tree layout but distinguishes a current marriage from a past one, a biological child from a stepchild, and a step-parent who is close to a child from one who is distant. That is why a genogram is often described as an advanced family tree: same people, more of the truth.

A worked example: the Holt and Mitchell families

Carol and Greg were each divorced, then married each other. Each brought children from a previous marriage, and their daughter Lily is the one child they had together.
Genogram example: Blended Step-Family Genogram
A blended family tree with divorces (double slashes), a remarriage, step-siblings, a half-sibling, health conditions and closeness, distance and conflict lines. Open this example

Read it from the middle row. Each adult has a former spouse on the outside, with the double slash of a divorce on that marriage line, and the current partner on the inside. The older children hang from their parents' first marriages; Lily, born to the new couple, is a half-sister to them. Then look at the colored lines: Sophia and her stepsister Brooke are close, Aiden is distant from his stepfather Greg, and Aiden and his stepbrother Ethan are in conflict. A plain tree can't say any of that: the remarriage did not land evenly for every child.

Which line to use for each relationship

RelationshipHow it is drawnWhen to use it
MarriageSolid horizontal line between partnersCurrent and past marriages, each with its own year
DivorceMarriage line with two slashesA marriage that ended; one slash means separated
RemarriageA second marriage line from the same personPlaced beside the first marriage, not replacing it
Living togetherDashed line between partnersPartners who share a home without marrying
Biological childSolid vertical lineHangs from the couple the child was born to
StepchildDash-dot vertical lineConnects a child to the parent’s new partner
Adopted childDashed vertical lineCommon when a step-parent formally adopts
These are standard genogram lines. GenogramAI has 64 relationship types in all; see every one in the relationship lines guide.

How to make a blended family tree

  1. 1

    Start with the couple at the center

    Add the two partners who formed the blended family and draw their marriage line with the year.
  2. 2

    Add each former partner

    Place each ex-spouse beside the person they were married to, and mark that marriage as divorced or separated with its year.
  3. 3

    Hang the children from the right couple

    Each child descends from the couple they were born to. Children the new couple had together hang from the new marriage line.
  4. 4

    Add step and adoptive links

    Connect stepchildren to their step-parent with a stepchild line, or an adopted line if the step-parent formally adopted.
  5. 5

    Show how people actually get along

    Add close, distant or conflict lines where they explain the family. Optionally draw households to show who lives where.

Children moving between two homes?

Turn on the Households view and draw a boundary around each home. The student in two households example shows a 14-year-old split between his mother's remarried household and his father's apartment.

Or describe the family and let the AI draw it

Blended families are where typing beats dragging. Each build from a description uses one AI credit; the free plan includes 5 a month.

Sample description

Carol married Dennis in 1997 and divorced in 2008; they have Aiden (1999) and Sophia (2002). Greg married Tamara in 2000 and divorced in 2009; they have Brooke (2001) and Ethan (2004). Carol and Greg married in 2010 and had Lily in 2011. Aiden and his stepfather Greg are distant. Sophia and Brooke are very close.

Paste a paragraph like this into Ask AI in the editor. The AI places the marriages, divorces and children, and you fix anything by hand or with a follow-up message.

Common mistakes on blended family trees

Drawing the new couple as the only parents

If the stepchild hangs only from the remarriage, the chart erases the other biological parent. Keep the original couple line, even if that parent is no longer in the picture.

Connecting step-siblings to each other

Step-siblings are related through a marriage, not through a shared parent. A sibling-style line between them makes the chart claim something that is not true.

Forgetting dates

In blended families the order matters: who married whom first, when a child was born relative to a divorce. One year on each marriage line answers most of the questions people ask.

Leaving out the relationships

A step-parent who raised a child and one who never met them look the same on a plain tree. A close or distant line says which, without a paragraph of notes.

More blended family examples

Father married three times

Children from each marriage, custody arrangements, and conflict between ex-wives.

Remarriage later in life

Two widowed parents who remarried in their seventies, with adult stepchildren on each side.

Single-parent family

A mother raising three children after her husband’s death, with the grandmother’s support.

Blended family genogram example

The Martinez-Chen family, walked through line by line.

Frequently asked questions

How do you show step-siblings on a family tree?

Step-siblings share no parent, so they are not connected to each other directly. Each child descends from their own parents’ marriage line, and the step relationship comes from the marriage between one child’s parent and the other child’s parent. A stepchild line (dash-dot) from the step-parent makes the bond explicit when it matters, for example when a step-parent helped raise the child.

How do you show half-siblings on a family tree?

Half-siblings share exactly one parent. Draw that parent’s two partnerships as two separate marriage lines, and hang each child from the line of the couple they were born to. Because both lines touch the shared parent, the half-sibling relationship is visible without a label.

Where does an ex-spouse go on a blended family tree?

Next to the person they were married to, on the same row, with the marriage line crossed by two slashes to show divorce (one slash for separation). Convention puts earlier partners further from the current one, so the order of marriages reads left to right or outward from the person.

Should I include a step-parent’s children from another marriage?

Yes, if they are part of family life. A blended family tree is most useful when it shows both households: the children each partner brought, the children they had together, and the other biological parents. Leave out people only if the chart is getting too wide for its purpose.

Is it free to make a blended family tree?

Yes. The free plan includes 2 trees with up to 50 people each, every relationship type (including divorce, remarriage and stepchild lines), 5 AI credits a month and PNG export. Paid plans add more trees, unlimited people and AI, and PDF or SVG export.